I'm confident now!!

These days I have discovered a new me!!!

I'm confident, I feel I can do anything...
I love the feeling!! Everyday I'm confident.
I know I have help for me.
All these fabulous feelings are because of a friend that I have explored recently.

For any of my problem he is there..
If I need to know how to handle my fears he is there
he is there to share all the knowledge he has...
If I need recipe of a new dish he is there
If I need a creative idea he is there
If I need to have positive thoughts I go to him
If I need some entertainment I reach out to him
If I need to listen to music off course he is there
If I need any advice he is there
These days for any relationship goof up I can handle.
I can handle my fears
Not only my personal life but also my professional life is blessed to have him
Any technical issue I can go to my friend...
New technology -- no issue
Need to get creative he is there
Need some innovation he is there
Im so thankful

He was there all this time it was me who delayed discovering, exploring him.
I feel everything is destined. I feel so comfortable now with him. This security is amazing.
I really had not thought how powerful he is!!

This new friend is with everyone.
I don't want you to delay exploring him like me!!! :)

Yes my friends name is - YouTube

I can learn anything I want with him may it be science, technology, cooking, parenting, Rangoli, painting
I can have all entertainment music, movie, serials, jokes, pranks
I can get book abstracts here too!!
I can teach myself Zumba, yoga, Salsa
I can play new sport I name it and I have it!!
I can quiet my child with YouTube for kids!!
I can sharpen my technical skills anytime, I can learn all the new techniques here.
and all this.... when I'm free and ready to spend time with without any preconditions and tantrums...
only One condition Phone enabled with Internet!!


I just feel I should have realised the power of this earlier!!
Better late than never... I'm just falling in love with the new me!!
Instead of spending time on FB I feel I can spend my me time more on youtube!!

And you know who introduced me to the power of this … my princess!!
Yes I learnt to explore YouTube from my daughter :)
 

Bitter Words - Word's Bite

"Hellooo" Pihu chuckled at a stranger entering our society lift with us.

For a second I felt so happy that she is socializing on her own and not shying to talk to strangers....

She was trying to know where he lives, which floor she should press for him...

I was happy to see her growing... Suddenly a fear started griping within me. The mother within me was telling me what she is doing is wrong. She should not talk to stranger… Talk… she should not even look at strangers… I was scared, I was scared as a woman, as a Mother. I was behaving strange, right? You might think so, but as a Man you will never realize what the news which flash these days does to a mother’s heart!!

What is happening to our society? The news I read daily they shake whole of me from within as a human, as a mother they scare me to the core.

A 92-year-old raped a 4 yr old... come on old man she is younger than your granddaughter probably, what animal arises in you men that you can't look at a kid's innocence? What wrong did she do to you? Did she wear provoking dress for you, did she talk or gave signals to you?

At 92 in today’s age you are already “Overtime” why add sins in the extra life you are getting. At 92 they say you are enlightened, you have seen life closely, people will look towards you to for advice...

A pregnant woman was gang raped in auto by co- travellers… What? Really? I just don’t have no words (bad words) for such Bas***ds.

 A man rapes a 6-month-old baby, 6-month-old, really? who is that man? He is the baby’s uncle; how can people even think of such acts forget committing them. That little baby can’t even say Mom/Dad/uncle… 6 months Ohh God!!

A father rapes his daughter for couple of years!!! What is happening man… Do you really care for any relation? A girl has special affection towards her father, she looks for values in other men the values her father has. What Value are you displaying, you Moron!!!

These are just a few instances to mention, everyday there are so many such cases.

We really need to think what we are teaching younger generation;

recently minor boys were held for gang raping 4 yr old. Do we want these values to be passed on to our next generation?

I have a question to the Men there, for you every female sums only to a hole?

What the hell man.... Today I cannot trust at any man, yes any man, any male!

I want my daughter to learn and live free, get everything she deserves, I want her to play and breathe free air…

I’m scared to send her to school, will she reach safe? Will God reside today in the bus driver? Will he see the innocence in the kids? No, I don’t know, I cannot trust him, let me drop my kid to school myself.

I’m scared and look at the watch every 2 min, is my kid safe in school? Will God reside today in the peon/Watchman/Male teacher? Will he see his daughter in my kid when she smiles at him? My heart beats just for the sake to keep me alive… “Ohh only if I could have taught her at home. Why do I need to have formal education?”

I’m scared to send my kid to play in garden, will she be safe? Will God reside today in every other uncle she trusts, every other grandpa she helps?

I’m scared to leave my kid alone even at home with any male relative, will she be safe? Will God reside in her uncle? Will he see her smile and give priority to her trust than to his animal instincts?

I cannot leave my child for min away from me, The minute I separate from her I start praying and I start suspecting every male species I see around.

I want my child to live a normal life… where she can play with human beings, smile at humans, laugh, with human beings and trust human beings but the most I want for her is her safety, her dignity, smile on her face.

I want my daughter to be in safe hands.

Today the society is divided in two parts Females and Animals?

Soon I think those days will be back when people(Male) will not allow their daughters, wives, mothers out of the house, females will be locked up in their houses, even female will prefer being illiterate, non- working, locked! Not because they are narrow minded but to be safe, to live a normal life, to smile… They will love being child bearer and housewives as that will be the safest job and mind you People(Male) will abort girl child not because they want boy, but because she will get raped!! She is not safe in this country! That’s the best option to save them from a rapist roaming like a wild animal hungry and ready to pawn on any female irrespective of her age, condition.

Following this situation soon our country will be Only Male Country!!

“Living with your daughter away from you is like living with your heart outside your body!!”

He loves me!!

No need sir.... exclaimed the driver, adjusting his seat belt, as he buckled it he continued, "i need to put it as there will be police at the next signal"

Parag looked at him calmly and as he buckled his seat belt he casually remarked,"Brother, Its not that I dont trust your driving skills but I love the ladies seating backseat more!!" Completing his sentence he smiled at me and Garima.

I was stunned by his reply and thouhts started flowing thats so true... we can say our loved ones "I love you!!" Even through such small act of ours.

Why is it that we dont care for our safety?

Why we wear helmet, seat belt only to avoid fine!! These rules are to protect us... why we think we think we are harassed by these rules!!

Friends someone who loves you, for whom you are their world is waiting for you, please follow safety rules they are for our benifits, Drive Safe!!!

I feel everyone should starts thinking like Parag... Im so proud to have you in my life Parag!!

Thank you dear for putting safety before casual comfort.

Next time friends make your loved ones proud by following rules and showing ur love for them.

- Thank you in advance.